Now, some of you may know when people send me questions I usually respond via email. Last night I got a email from one of you asking me to blog on the subject of if I have my eye on a boy, and tips for flirting and getting guy to like you. I thought this was a great idea so here we go!
Dear Anonymous,
First of all, thanks for emailing me! I'm always open to this kinda thing.
Do I have my eye on a guy? In fact I do. Although, it's just a crush or at least for now. As weird as that sounds. I'm always careful on "having my eye" on guy because I would get just too distracted. Now, from your email, I extracted a feeling that you have a crush. Don't worry dear I will help!
Tips for Flirting
My tips are kinda simple. Never obsesses. When I say that I mean don't go into flirting or a crush hard core. Just be nice, humble, and funny. Be his friend and point out the things you have in common. Yes, even text hin from time to time, but never every day. That's just too obvious. Also, when a friend says they'll talk to him, never agree even when it sounds like a great idea. You want your relationship to come naturally not forced. When flirting, get conversation flowing, don't talk about your self too much, but about him. Make inside jokes, which is a great way to always start a easy going conversation.
How to Get a Guy to Like You
First of all, don't change yourself for any guy. It's just not worth it. Instead, invest in perfume, wear bright colors, and maybe wear a little more mascara. DON'T over do it on eye make up. It doesn't send a pretty message. Talk to the guy more, establish a friendship but no so deep that's all he will want. Laugh at his jokes, and just give a overall fun vibe. Show him that you two have something special by bringing up old memories or put your hand on his shoulder for no more than ten seconds when starting a conversation. I promise it works. Also rely on your own instincts as well, but every one is different.
How to Get it Over Fast
I know girls who just go up to a guy and tell them their feelings. Now, before you react, I must tell you it works. Don't be scared of rejection, because if for some reason they don't like you that way, you have your friendship to rely on. It saves you the drama and stress of trying to get his attention. Just simply get them alone or text them and just tell them how you feel. Not, if they are in a relationship then that won't work. Just give it a try. :)
I hope this helped and I'm always here for further detail. Please give us the verdict!
Until next time,
Maddie
XOXO
